I have arrived

*whew. I am exhausted! 5 days on the road and a day of frustrating phone calls to insurance and doctor's offices will do that to you, I suppose.

The trip was... perfect. I really cannot complain for even one moment. Though we drove through several major cities, we never hit traffic even once. The weather was lovely. We easily found affordable hotels that accepted my 2 dogs every night, and we arrived in one piece. What more could we have asked for?

Our journey went like this: California - Nevada - Arizona - Utah - Colorado - Kansas - Missouri - Illinois - Indiana - Ohio - West Virginia - Pennsylvania - West Virginia - Maryland - Pennsylvania

The last leg of the trip (everything that follows Ohio) doesn't seem to make much sense, but according to my bro-in-law who is Ohio-born-and-raised this is the best route back to my hometown from Ohio taking into account the roads you go on and all of that lovely stuff.

Overall, Colorado is by far the most scenic/beautiful state, though my dad might beg to differ and say that West Virginia is. I told him that's why he lives out here on the East Coast. Kansas was the most BORING state as far as scenery... the wind was crazy there though which kept driving interesting because you certainly needed to keep both hands on the wheel at all times. We saw several major cities, as I already mentioned, and had we not had 2 dogs and a pregnant woman in the car it would have been quite interesting to make some stops to take in the country a bit more.

And when we arrived here to PA? My sister and my nephews were standing in the yard with my mom waiting to greet me. What a lovely surprise! Actually, I had texted her earlier in the day saying we would be arriving in approx. 4 hours, so I expected her to be there waiting for us. I certainly didn't think she'd go ahead and actually do it, so that was quite awesome.

Now the dogs and I are settling into our new home, and it's not too shabby. In fact, the dogs are in green grass heaven. They don't make yards out West like they do here in Pennsylvania, that's for sure!

Today was a trying day, however. My insurance finally processed my enrollment to the East Coast from the West Coast and assigned me a primary care manager. I thought the hard part was over..... until I spoke with my new dr's office and realized they were less than cooperative.

The way my insurance works is that I get assigned a primary care manager and all of my other care needs to be referred through them. So, in order to get into an OB I first need to see my new primary care doctor who must refer me to my OB. The problem was, the primary care office didn't want to fit me in for another month.... after which I would still need to wait for the appointment that I actually need which is the appt. with the OB. After tears.... and stress.... and multiple phone calls... I finally spoke with the office manager who got me an appointment sooner and gave me the information for the OB they would be referring me to so that I could go ahead and make my appointment with them so as not to delay my care any further. *geesh. So it's finally all taken care of and OK, but I certainly had some stress there inbetween.

My insurance is great in that they pay for EVERYTHING. My insurance is not so great in that you are forced to jump through a couple of extra loops that other insurance providers don't require you to jump through.

But... it all seems to be working out now, so I suppose I shouldn't be complaining.

All in all... I'm happy to b here safe and sound with a baby who moves and kicks regularly, 2 dogs who should win some kind of award for easily adapting to major life changes, and parents who will do anything for me.

Ok. So this is most definitely the last you will hear from me while I'm still on the West Coast.

But I just had to take a moment to write because.... I'm scared. Leaving my house and all of my worldly posessions is a lot scarier than I thought it would be. I have a little life here with a cute little house and all kinds of nice things that we have accumulated over the years. Gosh, I never thought of myself as very materialistic, but it's really hard to leave all of these things behind and just *pray* that I come back and everything is still in one piece exactly where I left it.

I know I'm taking everything that's most important with me.
I know that this arrangement, for my peace of mind, is certainly the lesser of 2 evils. But it's still pretty scary. In fact, I'm pretty freaked.

I'm sure all I need to stop worrying about this house is a good couple of hundred miles of distance between it and me. Then I will be able to put it out of my mind and focus just on the future.

Gearing Up

I am currently getting myself geared up for the big trek x-country. In case you don't know, I'm relocating to the East Coast for a few months so I'm not stuck out here all alone on the West Coast to have this baby. (Ok, so maybe I wouldn't be all alone, but I wouldn't have my most treasured people here with me which would just be a shame, don't you think?)

The latest word with Mike is that they are officially requesting a replacement for him. As far as other official information, there isn't any, so I feel confident to continue with my plans for relocation.

Though I have a few strange twinges inside of me about just up and leaving my house and all of my worldly belongings for several months, I am totally aware of the fact that everything that is most important will be with me. Everything else is just possessions and can be replaced.

My current fervent prayers go as follows: healthy pregnancy, healthy baby, safe return for Mike, safe trip for my dad and me to the East Coast. Everything else is just details.

Back on the Elliptical

During my 1st trimester I was deathly afraid of pretty much everything. If I could have built a safe cocoon and stayed inside of it, I probably would have. I'm a worrier by nature and the realization that I had the life of the teeniest tiniest person inside of me had me in super crazy worry mode.

When my first trimester was over and with multiple assurances from my doctor that not only was exercising safe during pregnancy, I should be doing it at least 4 times a week, I bit the bullet and got back on my elliptical machine one day.

I only lasted for about 5 minutes... because... call it coincidence... those 5 minutes happened to also be the first time I experienced round ligament pain...

I abruptly got off and did not consider getting back on again until recently.

I guess now that I've had the assurances of 1. a healthy ultrasound 2. a baby who moves regularly and 3. an expanding belly, I figured that it was time to get back on that elliptical. finally. As panicked as I was about doing something to hurt the baby, I was almost equally panicked about more than 9 months without an exercise regimen.

So I've been doing elliptical. Very. Very. Slowly. For between 30 and 40 minutes a day.. 4 or 5 times a week... like the doctor ordered. I feel really great about it.

Zen

ooooohhhhmmmmm.... oooohhhmmmmm..... oooohhhhmmmm.... (<----- me meditating!)

I've gone to my happy place, folks. I don't know if I'm overreacting to all of this or what. It's a little bit hard for me to be objective about this right now.

Yesterday was.... interesting. It started with the 75% chance email from Mike. Continued with a frustrating skype conversation with him in which the skype kicked him off every 5 minutes without fail. crescendoed with a lot of feeling sorry for myself kind of stuff, and ended with a looooooong conversation with myself and God (if he was around to listen).

What I figured out from all of that was I don't know much for sure. All that I do know for sure is that I will be there when I give birth and so will the baby. I don't know where we will be. I don't know who will be with us. But it will be OK. Maybe I won't get to see Michael's universe shift as he witnesses the miracle of childbirth. Maybe everything won't work out as perfectly as my imagination has decided it should. Maybe. Maybe my mom will totally miss everything due to her work schedule and limited time off. Maybe.

Maybe. Maybe. Maybe. That's all it is right now is a whole bunch of maybe's.

Oh-freaking-well. It is what it is. It will be what it will be.

and what will it be? Incredible. And Amazing. And Special. And Life changing.

I mean, according to my mom, Chinese women are giving birth in rice paddies as we speak, so I guess I don't really have it so bad. (inside joke there, folks. don't judge us).

So I'm back in my happy place. Until I have something official to freak out about, I am taking a chill pill and doing the zen thing. I always thought that being pregnant would have to be the coolest thing in the entire world. and it is. and I do not want to ruin that with my own anxieties and fears of what the future will bring.

The future will take care of itself.
For now I will do the same....take care of myself.

The End.

;ldskfa;jf;jrf

Doesn't the Marine Corps realize that there's a little person involved in this world now as they are jerking our chains around and changing their minds every 5 seconds to the point of confusing and freaking the hell out of me!

Apparently, Mike's commanding officer sat him down and told him there's a 75% chance that he will have a replacement and come home early. 75% chance?! 75 PERCENT?! What the heck is that supposed to mean? Are we supposed to be able to make plans around 75 freaking percent?!

At this point, I don't trust anything they tell us and I am almost desperately frightened of sticking around here even if they do tell us that there's a 100% chance that Mike has a replacement. If they change their mind... that would be it. Then I would be stuck here in San Diego and the only person other than Mike that I would want in the delivery room with me wouldn't be able to BE HERE... because she, like... works and everything. and I would be totally and completely royally screwed.

Trying to stay positive and not freak out. Trying desperately to go with the flow. but it's HARD, verging on impossible.

Baby Room

The crib! I wanted white but couldn't find anything in white that wasn't either insanely expensive or not to my taste. Now that I have it, I'm actually much happier with the cinnamon color I chose instead. The baby bumper was a clearance item at Target. It was quite a find. The baby blanket hanging on the right side of the crib was my first baby present and was given to me by one of my students. I loved it so much that I decided to decorate the entire baby room around it, thus you find the pale green walls.

This wall was my sister's idea: children's book covers framed. Her original idea was to buy the hard back books and frame the dust covers. That idea turned out to be a bit pricey, so my mom decided instead to print out pictures of the book covers and frame them. Love it!

And, last but not least... the changing table... which as you can see is very empty for the time being. Not for long, though, I'm sure. The stuffed animals hanging above were gifts that my students gave me throughout the school year. At the end of the year when they found out I was pregnant they made me promise to give them to the baby. Too sweet.

So the room is all ready for baby and Michael and me when we return to Cali in March or April. It's very fun to have it all ready and waiting for us. Thanks Mom and Dad!